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2018 Lent Fish Fries in the Fox Valley WI Area

Ash Wednesday begins the holy season of Lent. Fish Fries are commonplace during the season of Lent, especially in Wisconsin. There are certainly no shortages of 2018 Lent fish fries in the Fox Valley WI area.

While Wisconsin-style fish fries are popular year round, they ramp up during the Lenten season with many Catholic Christians choosing to abstain from meat on Fridays. Catholics abstain from flesh meat on Ash Wednesdays, Good Friday, and Fridays of Lent.

Rawhide’s Friday Night Fish Fry Menu

In addition to local taverns, supper clubs, and restaurants, some area churches feature fish fries during the Lent season. Which Lent Fish Fry in the Fox Valley is your favorite? Drop us a line in the comments section, and we’ll add it to the list!

Top Lenten Fish Fries near Appleton, Green Bay, and Oshkosh

We’ve gathered some of the highest-rated Lent fish fries around the Fox Valley area in Wisconsin. These local hot spots feature a traditional Wisconsin-style fish fry. We’d encourage you to arrive early and to be prepared to wait at many of these locations.

American Legion Posts
Appleton Post Website
Address: 3220 W College Ave, Appleton, WI 54914
Phone: (920) 733-9840

Wrightstown Post Website
Address: 924 Main St, Wrightstown, WI 54180
Phone: (920) 532-5542

Mark’s East Side – Appleton
Website
Address: 1405 E Wisconsin Ave, Appleton, WI 54911
Phone: (920) 733-3600

Van Abel’s – Hollandtown
Website
Address: 8108 County Road D, Kaukauna, WI 54130
Phone: (920) 766-2291

Out-O-Town Supper Club – Kaukauna
Website
Address: N2161 Town Club Rd, Kaukauna, WI 54130
Phone: (920) 766-0414

Tanner’s Grill & Bar – Kimberly
Website
Address: 730 S Railroad St, Kimberly, WI 54136
Phone: (920) 788-7275

The Wishing Well – Appleton
Website
Address: 2709 E Newberry St, Appleton, WI 54915
Phone: (920) 734-4472

Black Otter Supper Club – Black Otter Supper Club
Website
Address: 503 S Nash St, Hortonville, WI 54944
Phone: (920) 779-6975

Lake Park Pub – Menasha
Website
Address: 8904 Lake Park Rd, Menasha, WI 54952
Phone: (920) 739-1901

Cimarron Bar & Grill – Menasha
Website
Address: W7170 US Hwy 10 114, Menasha, WI 54952
Phone: (920) 733-3125

Wendt’s on the Lake – Van Dyne
Website
Address: N9699 Lake Shore Dr, Van Dyne, WI 54979
Phone: (920) 688-5231

Jansen’s Bar and Restaurant – Oshkosh
Website
Address: 344 Bowen St, Oshkosh, WI 54901
Phone: (920) 231-0690

Parnell’s Place – Oshkosh
Website
Address: 2932 Fond Du Lac Rd, Oshkosh, WI 54902
Phone: (920) 235-9770

The Roxy Supper Club – Oshkosh
Website
Address: 571 N Main St, Oshkosh, WI 54901
Phone: (920) 231-1980

Kropp’s Supper Club – Green Bay
Website
Address: 4570 Shawano Ave, Green Bay, WI 54313
Phone: (920) 865-7331

Kroll’s East – Green Bay
Website
Address: 1658 Main St, Green Bay, WI 54302
Phone: (920) 468-4422

VFW Post 2732 – New London
Website
Address: 305 E Beckert Rd, New London, WI 54961
Phone: (920) 982-9971

Pine Tree Supper Club – New London
Website
Address: E8095 WI-54, New London, WI 54961
Phone: (920) 982-5738

Black Otter Supper Club – Hortonville
Website
Address: 503 S Nash St, Hortonville, WI 54944
Phone: (920) 779-6975

2018 Lenten Church Fish Fries in the Fox Valley WI area

Churches often feature a Friday fish fry during the Lenten season for fundraising and community outreach. They tend to serve many of the traditional items found on a Wisconsin fish fry plate. It’s certainly not a requirement, but many of the churches that tend to serve Lent fish fry dinners are Catholic.

St. Edward Parish – Appleton
Website
Address: N2926 WI-47, Appleton, WI 54913
Phone: (920) 733-9266
*Serving Times: 4:30 pm – 7:00 pm
2018 fish fry menu available here.

St. Thomas More – Appleton
Website
Address: 1810 N McDonald St # B, Appleton, WI 54911
Phone: (920) 739-7758
*Serving Times: Feb 16, March 2, 16 & 23 from 5:00 pm – 7:00 pm
New in 2018: order online and request pickup time!

St. Pius X – Appleton
Website
Address: 500 W Marquette St, Appleton, WI 54911
Phone: (920) 733-0575
*Serving Times: Feb 23, March 9 & 23 from 5:00 pm – 7:30 pm
Fish fry menu is available on the homepage of their website.

Holy Spirit – Kimberly
Website
Address: 620 E Kimberly Ave, Kimberly, WI 54136
Phone: (920) 788-7640
*Serving Times: 4:30 pm – 7:00 pm
More fish fry information can be found here.

Peter & Paul Parish – Hortonville
Website
Address: 105 N Olk St, Hortonville, WI 54944
Phone:  (920) 779-6133
*Serving Times: 4:30 pm – 7:30 pm
Fish fry menu is available on the homepage of their website.

Family First Ministries – Downtown Appleton
Website
Address: 300 N Appleton St, Appleton, WI 54911
Phone: (920) 903-1159
*Serving Times: Every 1st and 3rd Thursday & Friday from 11:00 am to 6:00 pm
Fish fry menu is available on the homepage of their website.

St. Gabriel Parish – Neenah
Website
Address: 900 Geiger Street, Neenah, WI 54956
Phone: (920) 722-4914
*Serving Times: 4:30 pm – 7:30 pm
2018 fish fry menu is available here.

Trinity Lutheran Church & School – Menasha
Website
Address: 300 Broad St, Menasha, WI 54952
Phone: (920) 725-1715
*Serving Times: 4:00 pm – 7:00 pm
Check their calendar for updated menu or times.

St. Raphael Fish Fry – Oshkosh
Website
Address: 830 S Westhaven Dr, Oshkosh, WI 54904
Phone: (920) 233-8044
2018 fish fry menu available here.

*Serving Times: 4:30 pm – 7:00 pm

2018 Rawhide Fish Fry Dates

Rawhide Boys Ranch features fish fry nights with all the proceeds directed towards tuition assistance for at-risk youth. Read more about our fish fry season.

May 18

June 15

July 20

August 17

September 21

October 19

Does media exposure create desensitization?

Repeated exposure to on-screen violence may contribute to desensitization, or a lack of response when witnessing a real-life act of violence. Thanks to the prevalence and affordability of smartphones, teens and children have access to sex and violence on demand in their pockets.

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Ease of exposure

Researchers have been concerned with growing media violence and the effect that it has on individuals for decades. Research started in the early seventies as television content changed and started to show mild forms of violence. Media deregulation in the eighties, along with the growing popularity cable TV and VHS, changed the way people viewed content. It also made it easier for teens and kids to view adult content without any parental supervision. Trends continued throughout the next two decades with the growing popularity of violent films and TV shows.

It’s now easier than ever to view on-screen high-definition violence with the availability of smartphones and tablets. How many kids have access to smartphones? According to Growing Wireless, 56 percent of children ages 8 to 12 have a smartphone. As children get older, that number explodes to over 90 percent. A 2016 survey by Common Sense Media said that half of those kids feel like they’re addicted to their phones.

RELATED: The Digital Diet of the American Teen

Logan Paul and desensitized prank culture

Logan Paul is a popular YouTube star and vlogger. On December 31, Logan uploaded a YouTube vlog of himself walking through the Aokigahara Forest in Japan, unfortunately, known as the Aokigahara Suicide Forest. It’s the world’s second most popular place to take one’s life.

The video shows Logan, his friends, and production staff stumbling upon a body in the forest, presumably a victim of suicide. The video –viewed over six million times before it was deleted – shows him laughing and joking. YouTube prank videos generally capitalize on shock value with their young viewers. It was clear that the shock culture behind many of Logan’s videos played into the decision to upload the Aokigahara Forest clip to his YouTube account. His brand of shock and prank videos garners millions of views, typically from a younger audience demographic. After the video made its way around the internet, it was clear that Logan Paul had gone too far.

Almost immediately after the video was removed, Logan uploaded an apology video which seemed to follow the narrative of most remorseful celebrity apology videos. Logan noted on Twitter that the video was not uploaded for views, but it’s difficult to see it any other way. There’s a monetary value to every video upload. Would Logan have apologized if it were not for the worldwide outrage to the video?

The controversial video garnered thousands of Likes before it was removed by Logan. It’s a shocking example of how the teenage demographic has become desensitized to graphic imagery and outlandish content.

What are the effects of media violence?

Psychologists have been studying the potential effects of violence in the media for years. According to the APA, research on the effects of viewing real violence on television has found a desensitizing effect and potential for aggression.  After decades of research, there is evidence to suggest that viewing real violence on screen may result in children becoming less sensitive to the pain and suffering of others, and becoming more likely to behave in an aggressive fashion toward others. However, as the APA notes, “research by psychologists Douglas Gentile and Brad Bushman, among others, suggested that exposure to media violence is just one of several factors that can contribute to aggressive behavior.”

When it comes to violent video games, conclusions regarding desensitization to violence have been mixed. Psychologist Christopher J. Ferguson contends that research done on video game violence in a lab setting has not translated to the real world. Ferguson also suggests that most of the research regarding video game violence fails to take into account other variables such as mental health and family upbringing. These conclusions have been updated by Ferguson more recently in this Huffington Post article.

Our unfortunate history of desensitization

One of the most famous “lack of response” cases of involves the attack and murder of Kitty Genovese in 1964 in the New York City borough of Queens, long before the internet.

After the attack, the New York Times published a long report claiming that 38 witnesses saw or heard the attack, but failed to contact the authorities. The situation birthed what is known as the “bystander effect” or “Genovese syndrome.” The bystander effect proposes that a large number of bystanders decrease the likelihood that one of them will step forward and intervene. However, in 2015, Genovese’s brother said police were actually called twice but did not respond. Additionally, the New York Times also noted that its own report exaggerated the number of witnesses it thought were present during the attack.

While it probably isn’t likely that any of the witnesses in the Kitty Genovese case showed desensitization from media, the tragic events provide other insights. When the killer was apprehended, he famously remarked when asked why he attacked a woman in a public setting, “I knew they wouldn’t do anything, people never do” (Seedman & Hellman, 1974, p. 100).

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Looking ahead at the changing media landscape

Ease of exposure to harmful video content will only accelerate in the future. Virtual reality and augmented reality are on the horizon and primed to explode with popularity. In 2018, Android and iOS devices will be able to provide better-augmented reality experiences than ever before, changing the way we use our mobile devices to buy products and consume media.

Fiction and reality will continue to blend, making it more difficult for our brains to discern what is real and what is not. It will be up to parents of children and teenagers to stay involved and set limits on appropriate content and the amount of time used in a virtual reality.

Keeping tabs on your teen

Parents today are generally less concerned about privacy settings on their television and more concerned about how to keep tabs on their child’s smartphone or tablet. Nearly all teenagers are using the internet on their smartphone to view video content and use social media.

It’s your right as a parent to monitor your child and provide a safe online experience. Free video content found on YouTube can be regulated with parental controls. Turning on Google SafeSearch in your smartphone’s internet browser will automatically filter out unsafe search content as well as video content from YouTube.

Android and iPhone operating systems also provide parent control restrictions that help limit unsafe apps, music, movies, websites, and more.

Google Family Link families.google.com/familylink

Apple Parental Control support.apple.com/en-us/HT201304

Why does the Tide Pod Challenge exist?

Children have been accidentally ingesting laundry detergent and other household cleaners for as long as they have been manufactured. A new teen social media challenge has shifted focus from accidental to intentional exposure. The “Tide Pod Challenge” has gone viral. Teens and even some adults are posting videos of themselves putting laundry detergent pods in their mouth, biting, and chewing the packets until they burst.

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At the age of 16, teens are given the opportunity to obtain their driver’s license in the United States. Some of the same kids we entrust to obey traffic rules and drive responsibly are eating laundry detergent packets in a social media challenge. The hunger for social acceptance and temptation for virality must be overwhelming.

However, eating a laundry detergent pod or packet isn’t really possible. If you’d actually try to pierce the plastic packet with your teeth, detergent would burst through the air-tight seal sending laundry detergent down your throat. From there, you’d start to gag and cough. You may even ingest a cleaning agent like Linear Alkylbenzene Sulfonates or Polyethyleneimine Ethoxylate, a chemical that’s designed to lift dirt from your clothes. Even just a small amount of detergent can result in esophageal and lung burns.

Why do kids participate in the Tide Pod Challenge?

Self-harm is an intentional act of physically hurting one’s body without a direct suicide attempt. Some use self-harm as a coping mechanism to relieve extreme stress, emotional numbness, trauma, or abuse. The most common form of self-harm is cutting. Other forms of self-harm include burning, scratching, poison ingesting, wound picking, and hair pulling.

 

Related: Cyberbullying and teen suicide

 

Is the Tide Pod Challenge a form of self-harm? While the absurdity of the social media challenge may make it seem silly, choosing to bite through a detergent pod should be cause for major concern. Participation in these types of challenges could also be seen as a way teens attempt to cope with worsening depression.

The more time teens and adults spend on social media, the more likely they are to become depressed, according to a recent study done by the University Of Pittsburgh School Of Medicine.

“It may be that people who already are depressed are turning to social media to fill a void.”

The lead author of the study at the University of Pittsburgh concluded that individuals who are depressed often turn to social media to escape, further fueling their depression. Spending more time on social media also contributes to internet addiction, idealized representations of reality, and exposure to cyberbullying.

The long list of teen social media challenges

Tide Pod Challenge

Blue Whale Challenge

Gallon Challenge

Choking Game

Cinnamon Challenge

Spray Deodorant Challenge

Eraser Challenge

Bath Salt Challenge

Fire Challenge

Hot Water Challenge

How many people have died from the Tide Pod Challenge?

In 2016 and 2017 there were 53 cases of intentional exposure to laundry detergent pods. Since January 1, 2018, this number has increased to 119 teenagers. The American Association of Poison Control Centers claims there were 10,570 cases of detergent exposure reported to poison centers for children 5 years of age and younger in 2017.

However, there aren’t clear numbers regarding the number of deaths that can be contributed to the Tide Pod Challenge.

The incredible media exposure has only exacerbated the problem accelerating intentional exposure. Eventually, the media exposure might help qualm future ingestion by creating awareness, helping parents move the detergent pods out of reach of younger children.

There has always a real and present danger of toddlers shoving small objects in their mouth. Unlike teens, toddlers can actually be protected from ingesting detergent pods. Some feel that the brightly colored candy appearance of laundry detergent pods is more attractive to toddlers or children with cognitive disabilities.

The more parents realize that the brightly colored detergent pods need to be out of reach, the better.

What is the Blue Whale Challenge?

The Blue Whale Challenge or Blue Whale Game is a social networking game that rose to prominence in 2016. The game has reached a number of countries across the globe. It originated in Russia and quickly spread through social media to America, Europe, India, Morocco, Algeria, and other developed countries. It features a series of self-harm tasks assigned to players by an administrator during a 50-day period. On the last day of the challenge, the participant is asked to commit suicide.

Named after whales that beach themselves and die in the process, the Blue Whale Challenge has been around for longer than the Tide Pod Challenge, and its goals are more sinister.

Once kids are pressured to join through social media, they’re blackmailed and cyberbullied to stay in the game by their administrator.

The digital world is an overwhelming arena. For many kids, it’s their only outlet for social interaction. What can a parent do to help their child becoming involved with a potentially deadly social media challenge?

Rob Gronkowski Tide Pod PSA

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Stopping the Tide Pod Challenge

Teenagers are incredibly curious, and the internet is the perfect place to explore the digital world without draconian restrictions. However, curiosity can sometimes be leveraged by nefarious actors.

Unfortunately, the temptation of social media use will only increase. Kids who engage a lot on social media may feel like they are not living up to unrealistic portraits of life that they find elsewhere online.

Though social media is now considered an essential avenue for interaction, your child or teen’s accounts and postings should be monitored. It’s also important to remember that not every child or teenager that uses social media is depressed or will become depressed. The more active we all are online the less time we’re cultivating meaningful relationships in reality.  If you feel that your child may be exhibiting signs of depression, get involved and start listening without judgment.

 

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We encourage parents to use online resources like the Anxiety and Depression Association of America to find more information and specific steps to take if they feel like their child might be suffering from intense anxiety or depression.

In the meantime, parents can keep laundry detergent pods out of reach of toddlers to help prevent possible ingestion. Parents of teenagers and young children can also avoid purchasing detergent pods altogether and use traditional liquid detergent when possible.

The Pink Whale Challenge

Ana Paula Hoppe and Rafael Tiltscher are credited with starting the Pink Whale Challenge. According to BuzzFeed, the Pink Whale challenge is structured similarly to the Blue Whale challenge. It asks players to compete in a series of daily challenges designed to promote positive ideas, like doing homework or pitching in to help around the house.

“People started to send messages asking for help, children who were hurting themselves and even the people who were thinking about taking their lives.”

Once they launched a Facebook page, they were bombarded with messages from teens who wanted to start the challenge.

The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for anyone in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals.

The number of the National Poison Help hotline is 1-800-222-1222. You can also text “Poison” to 797979 to save the number in your phone. It’s available 24/7 for free.